Tangible worthiness

You have to take care of yourself before you can take care of other people. And it's okay to be proud of yourself, as long as you're proud of actual accomplishments and not dreams!

You have a lot to offer, Clare. Everyone really does appreciate who you are and what you have to contribute. Yet you have been unable to give yourself credit for all that you've accomplished. It would be worthwhile for you to take some time contemplating why this is so. You have a strong need to be loved, but you must first love yourself. Yes, we know it's a cliche to say; nevertheless you know it is true. Your family and friends will support you, but first you must support yourself.